A lasting stone for your pet in Des Moines
Des Moines has an estimated 78,000 dog- or cat-owning households. When a stone is the memorial you want, the local climate, your yard and any HOA or lease rules all shape the right choice.
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Des Moines, Iowa
What getting a pet stone made in Des Moines is like
A memorial stone in a Des Moines yard has to cope with deep winter frost, spring storms, hail and humid summers, so granite with deep engraving tends to last far better than painted or resin pieces. Many families keep the ashes in an indoor urn through the winter and place a stone or plant a shrub in April or May. A spot under a tree your pet liked, where you can see it from the kitchen, often works well.
Gray's Lake with its lit footbridge, Water Works Park and the trails that follow the Des Moines and Raccoon rivers through the city are places many families shared with their pets, and some want to remember them there. City parks and waterways have their own rules on scattering, so check before you go. Keeping the ashes at home, or planting a tree with a biodegradable urn once the ground thaws, is simpler to arrange.
If there's no monument company in Des Moines itself, a larger center such as Des Moines usually has one. Many will engrave a pet marker from granite offcuts left over from bigger jobs, often for less than you'd expect, and some will email a proof so you only make one trip. It's worth a phone call before you order online.
Des Moines is home to about 212,086 people, the largest of the 27 Iowa communities we cover.
Nearby, we also have local pages for West Des Moines (8 miles), Altoona (9 miles) and Urbandale (9 miles), which can help if your vet or the provider you prefer is based there.
Our estimate
78,000
How many dog- or cat-owning households Des Moines has (estimate)
How we calculated this
212,086 ÷ 2.5 = 84,834 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 78,000. Multi-pet homes count once.
Our estimate
6,500
dog and cat deaths per year in Des Moines, our estimate
How we calculated this
78,000 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 6,500 a year. The real figure is unlikely to be lower.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
To check the figures yourself, see Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science and American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry.
Local traditions and what they mean for a pet stone
About 63.6%[5] of people in Iowa are cremated, a share that has been rising for years. Many families here grew up visiting headstones in a churchyard or town cemetery, and a stone for a pet can feel like a natural extension of that habit. Others prefer something less formal, such as an engraved river rock in a flower bed.
NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) is where the Iowa figure comes from. It counts people; we use it because attitudes to cremating a pet in Des Moines tend to follow attitudes to cremation generally.
How the climate in Des Moines ages a memorial
With 5 months of freezing lows in Des Moines, frost heave is as big a risk as cracking. Wet soil expands as it freezes and can tilt a stone set directly on the ground. Set yours on 3 to 4 inches of compacted gravel so water drains away, and choose a flat, wide marker over a tall narrow one. Our cold-weather memorial notes go further.
Order in winter and set in spring is a good rhythm for Des Moines. Mortar and construction adhesive don't cure properly in the cold, and January lows around 14°F are far below what they need. If your stone has a separate base or a glued plaque, ask the maker to assemble it in the workshop rather than on a cold day in your yard.
Pet memorial stone prices for families in Des Moines
Material sets the price tier. By our estimate, photo-etched or flat granite markers start at ~$158–$160[6] at two US sellers, roughly four times an entry-level engraved garden stone. Bronze-on-granite headstones run $1,098–$2,598[7] (per one large retailer). For most gardens in Des Moines, a flat granite marker gives the best balance of lasting lettering and cost; the table shows the full range.
The Iowa price table breaks costs down by product; our services page explains what sits behind each line.
Free tool
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Rules to check before placing a stone in Iowa
If you own your home, you can usually place a garden stone wherever you like; the stricter rules concern burying a body, not marking a spot. If you rent, ask your landlord before burying anything or setting a stone in concrete, and choose a stone you can lift and take with you. Below are the burial and scattering notes we have for Iowa.
The official Iowa local government directory lists every county and city office, which is the quickest way to find who to ask in Des Moines.
The rules that apply across Iowa (home burial, scattering and who oversees pet cremation) are summarized on our Iowa page. Des Moines may add its own conditions, so check with the city or county before digging.
A simple plan for your pet's memorial stone
- Decide how much of the ashes belongs with the stone: the whole amount enclosed in a cavity, just a little buried under it, or nothing at all, so the marker only names a spot your pet was fond of.
- If the stone will hold ashes, ask the maker for the cavity's volume and set it against the size of the bag or box that came back from the crematory. Our urn size calculator gives a rough figure for how much room the ashes take.
- Keep the ashes in a sealed waterproof pouch rather than pouring them straight into the stone; unbagged, they absorb damp and set into lumps.
- Place the stone as soon as it arrives if you like. There's no soil to wait on, so families often choose a meaningful date, a birthday or the first mild weekend of the year.
- Pick a spot that stays yours, a corner of the patio or a big pot, for instance, if moving house is a possibility.
- Write down what's inside the stone and file the note with your important documents, so a future owner or relative doesn't treat it as decoration.
Small rituals that keep the stone meaningful
Iowa families tend to scatter as children grow up, to Iowa City, Ames, Minneapolis or Chicago, and a family pet may be the last shared link to the house they grew up in. Cremation jewelry, small keepsake urns and paw print impressions let each person hold on to something. If you'd like the ashes divided, ask when you order, so they come back in several containers ready to send or hand out at the holidays.
Our services overview lays out every option side by side, go deeper with the guides or catch up on recent articles, or see what other families chose in the poll results, run the numbers with the free planning tools. More local pages: Davenport, West Des Moines, Sioux City and Iowa City, the Iowa overview and every city in the United States.
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Free tools to help you plan
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Memorial stone planner
Plan size, material and engraving length so your wording fits the stone.
Memorial tree finder
Pick a tree for a planting urn that suits your climate, space and pet.
Questions people ask
When is the hardest time of year to arrange a burial in Des Moines?
January, February, March, November and December: average lows are below freezing then, and frozen ground makes a home grave slow or impossible until it thaws. The other pressure point is July, when highs around 86°F mean a body needs cooling and collecting quickly.
Is Des Moines big enough to have several pet aftercare providers?
Probably, on the numbers. By our estimate about 78,000 Des Moines households keep a dog or cat and around 6,500 lose one each year, which is enough steady demand to support more than one provider. We derive that from population (about 212,086), household size and national ownership and lifespan figures.
Can a provider from a neighbouring town collect from Des Moines?
Usually yes. West Des Moines is about 8 miles away, Altoona is about 9 miles away and Urbandale is about 9 miles away, all inside a normal collection radius. Get the mileage written into the quote so there is no surprise on the day.
How do Iowa attitudes to cremation compare?
NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) puts the Iowa human cremation rate at about 63.6%[5]. We show it on the Des Moines page because pet aftercare choices tend to track it: where cremation is normal for people, communal and private pet cremation are both easy to find.
What do people usually engrave on a pet memorial stone?
Most choose the pet's name and years, plus one short line: a nickname, a place they loved or a phrase the family always said. A paw print or small outline is a popular alternative to words. Read the wording out loud, check the spelling with someone else and keep it short enough to read from the path.
Is it too late to get a stone for a pet who died years ago?
Not at all. Many families order a stone months or years later, once they know where they'll settle or when the grief has softened enough to choose words. If you're not sure exactly where your pet was buried, a stone can mark the general area or a spot in the garden they loved.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] The NFDA projected Iowa's cremation rate at 63.6% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [6] Photo-etched or flat granite pet markers start at about $158–$160 at two US sellers. Our estimate: Memorials.com flat granite from $157.95; Comfort Co. photo granite from $159.99. How we calculate.
- [7] Bronze-on-granite pet headstones at Memorials.com run from $1,097.95 to $2,597.95 (with vase). Memorials.com – Pet Memorial Stones, 2026.
- [8] Across five posted US pet-cemetery price lists, the median whole-body burial for a small pet, including plot and opening/closing, was about $350. Our estimate: median of [Rainier $150 plot incl. first burial, Cedar Bend $290, Forest $350, Great River $750, Precious Memories $1,500]. How we calculate.
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