A lasting stone for your pet in De Pere
By our estimate, about 9,400 households in De Pere have a dog or cat, and roughly 780 of those pets are lost each year. Many end up remembered with a stone in a garden bed; here's how to choose one that lasts.
- Wording that fits a small stone
- Flush, raised or with an ashes compartment
- No pressure: a stone can wait until you're ready

De Pere, Wisconsin
Where a stone can go in De Pere
Plenty of De Pere families have been in northeast Wisconsin for generations, with brothers, sisters and cousins scattered from Green Bay to Appleton and beyond. Splitting ashes between a central urn and several little keepsake containers lets more than one household share the remembering. Let the provider hear about the split early on, so the smaller portions come back together with the rest.
De Pere has a Norbertine abbey and a Catholic college at its heart, and for a number of households that shapes the memorial: a small cross or saint's medal next to the urn, or a prayer spoken over the garden where ashes rest. Others prefer something contemporary, such as paw print art, a glass paperweight with ashes suspended inside, or a slim silver pendant.
On a property near De Pere, a big natural boulder can make a striking memorial, but moving one is serious work. A tractor bucket or skid steer can shift it, yet stones slip and roll; keep people well clear, and never stand downhill. For anything over a few hundred pounds, ask the engraver whether they can carve it where it will stay.
De Pere is home to about 25,590 people, the 33rd-largest of the 50 Wisconsin communities we cover.
If you want to compare providers, look at Green Bay (7 miles, a larger centre), Howard (10 miles) and Kaukauna (14 miles). Distance matters because pickup fees and the time until the ashes come back both grow with the drive.
Our estimate
9,400
How many dog- or cat-owning households De Pere has (estimate)
How we calculated this
25,590 ÷ 2.5 = 10,236 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 9,400. A household with several pets counts once.
Our estimate
780
De Pere families who lose a dog or cat each year (estimate)
How we calculated this
9,400 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 780 a year. Treat it as a minimum.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
The published sources behind those figures are American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry and Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science.

Burial, cremation and headstones in Wisconsin
About 70.7%[5] of people in Wisconsin are cremated, and local pet crematories are well established. Many offer memorial stones alongside urns, so it's easy to order one when you collect your pet's ashes. It's worth pausing first: a stone chosen a few weeks later, when you know where it will go, usually suits the spot better.
We take the Wisconsin rate from NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024). It is a human statistic; there is no equivalent pet figure for De Pere, and we would rather show a real number than invent one.
Which stones survive the weather in De Pere
Engraving depth matters most where winters are long. In De Pere, with freezing lows through January, February, March, November and December, ice sits in shallow letters and slowly softens their edges. Ask for sandblasted lettering at least an eighth of an inch deep on granite, avoid painted-only designs, and read our guide to outdoor stone grade and engraving depth before you order.
Snow and salt are both hard on stone in De Pere. A flush marker disappears under snow from January, February, March, November and December, so add a small stake or a tall plant nearby if you want to find it easily. Keep de-icing salt away from the memorial: salt draws water into stone and speeds up flaking, especially on limestone, marble and concrete.

How much to budget for a pet stone
Pet cemeteries price very differently from garden stones. By our estimate, the median starting burial price across 15 US pet cemeteries is ~$600[6], and a small pet's whole-body burial across five posted price lists comes to ~$350[7], often before any marker. One natural burial ground charges $250 for a boulder headstone, with engraving from $670[8]. A stone for a De Pere garden avoids those extras.
The Wisconsin price table breaks costs down by product; our services page explains what sits behind each line.

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Home burial, rentals and pet cemeteries in Wisconsin
Rented homes, condos and strata properties need a different plan. You usually can't bury a pet in shared grounds, and anything fixed in place may have to be removed when you leave. A stone with a sealed ashes compartment, or a heavy engraved rock on a patio, gives you a memorial without breaking the lease. Here's the local picture for Wisconsin.
The official Wisconsin local government directory lists every county and city office, which is the quickest way to find who to ask in De Pere.
Start with the Wisconsin rules, which cover burial, scattering and oversight for the whole state, and treat De Pere's local ordinances as a possible extra layer.
How to choose, order and set a pet stone
- Let your child help choose the spot. Somewhere they can reach alone, or see from a bedroom window, often matters more to them than to adults.
- Start with a stone they decorate themselves. A smooth river rock and some weatherproof paint pens keep a child busy and included when the loss is freshest.
- Ask them for one word or line to include. Children's phrases are often the ones a family treasures most years later.
- Show them the proof before you approve it, and give them the job of reading the pet's name aloud one letter at a time.
- Keep the homemade stone next to the carved marker, or move it inside onto a shelf after the permanent one goes in.
- Give each child a job on the day: carrying the stone, placing pebbles around it or watering a new plant. More ideas are in our guides.
Around the stone: plants, benches and small rituals
Winters along this stretch of the Fox are hard on outdoor keepsakes. Freeze-thaw, salt from the bridges and roads, and heavy snow split budget concrete and fade painted resin fast. Granite set level with the grass, bronze fixed to a fieldstone, or a clump of daylilies holds up far better. Anyone planning a memorial tree should hold off until May, when the ground is soft and no longer soggy.
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Questions people ask
Roughly how many pets die in De Pere each year?
Our estimate is around 780. It comes from De Pere's population (about 25,590), the average household size, the share of homes with a dog or cat (about 9,400 households here) and the average lifespan. It is arithmetic, not a count, so read it as a rough floor.
Why does the De Pere page quote a human cremation rate?
Because it is the best local signal we have. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) reports about 70.7%[5] of Wisconsin residents are cremated. There is no official pet equivalent, and inventing one would be worse than quoting a real, clearly labelled number.
Does the De Pere climate change what I should do first?
Only the timing. In July, with highs near 81°F, cool the body and book collection the same day. In January, February, March, November and December, when lows sit below freezing, a home burial may have to wait for a thaw, so cremation with ashes returned keeps your options open.
Can a provider from a neighbouring town collect from De Pere?
Usually yes. Green Bay is about 7 miles away, Howard is about 10 miles away and Kaukauna is about 14 miles away, all inside a normal collection radius. Get the mileage written into the quote so there is no surprise on the day.
Do many families in De Pere choose a memorial stone?
We don't track local sales, but the numbers suggest plenty do. By our estimate, around 780 dogs and cats die in De Pere each year, from about 9,400 dog- or cat-owning households, and a large share of US owners say they'd prefer home burial (40.4% cremation; 34.9% home burial; 1.9% aquamation[10] in one survey). Many of those graves end up marked with a stone.
Can I bury my pet in my backyard in De Pere and put a stone on it?
In many places you can bury a pet on land you own, with rules about depth and distance from water, but cities and homeowners' associations can be stricter. Check the local notes on this page and your HOA rules. A stone marking the grave rarely needs any permission of its own once the burial itself is allowed.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] The NFDA projected Wisconsin's cremation rate at 70.7% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [6] Across 15 US pet cemeteries' posted starting burial prices, the median entry price was about $600. Our estimate: median of starting prices [400,185,300,550,575,99,660.44,730,740,850,850,800,850,600,600]. How we calculate.
- [7] Across five posted US pet-cemetery price lists, the median whole-body burial for a small pet, including plot and opening/closing, was about $350. Our estimate: median of [Rainier $150 plot incl. first burial, Cedar Bend $290, Forest $350, Great River $750, Precious Memories $1,500]. How we calculate.
- [8] At Great River Natural Burial, a natural boulder headstone costs $250, engraving starts at $670, and pet caskets cost $170–$250. Great River Natural Burial – Pet Cemetery Pricing, 2026.
- [9] Photo-etched or flat granite pet markers start at about $158–$160 at two US sellers. Our estimate: Memorials.com flat granite from $157.95; Comfort Co. photo granite from $159.99. How we calculate.
- [10] Asked their preferred future after-death care, 40.4% of US owners chose traditional flame cremation and 34.9% home burial; 10.7% chose cemetery burial and 1.9% alkaline hydrolysis (aquamation). Cooney, Kogan, Brooks, Ellis - Pet Owners' Expectations for Pet End-of-Life Support and After-Death Body Care, Topics in Companion Animal Medicine (2020), 2020.
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