An outdoor memorial for your pet, made for Upper Arlington
By our count, roughly 1,100 Upper Arlington families lose a dog or cat every year. A memorial stone is one of the few decisions with no deadline, so here's what to know before you order.
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Upper Arlington, Ohio
Choosing a pet memorial stone in Upper Arlington
Some families picture the Scioto or Griggs Reservoir, on the city's western edge, as a place for scattering. Those waters and the parkland around them belong to the City of Columbus, so ask its parks office first. A locket or tiny urn holding a little ash lets you keep your pet near while the rest goes back to the river you walked beside.
Upper Arlington's big trees and long-established gardens suit a quiet, understated memorial: a flat stone beneath an old oak, a bed of ferns and hellebores, or a small bronze plaque fixed to a garden wall. Deep shade rules out many flowering trees, so if you plant with ashes, pick something that tolerates a canopy overhead, such as a native serviceberry at the woodland edge.
Proofs matter even more when the maker is far away. If you order online or through a monument shop in a larger center such as Columbus, ask for a digital proof showing the exact letters, spacing and any picture, and check it on your phone at arm's length. Spelling mistakes can't be sanded out of granite, and a return trip is a long drive.
Upper Arlington is home to about 35,893 people, the 38th-largest of the 106 Ohio communities we cover. Columbus, roughly 6 miles off, is the closest larger centre, and a share of the providers who cover Upper Arlington run from there.
Nearby, we also have local pages for Hilliard (5 miles), Columbus (6 miles, a larger centre) and Dublin (7 miles), which can help if your vet or the provider you prefer is based there.
Our estimate
13,000
How many dog- or cat-owning households Upper Arlington has (estimate)
How we calculated this
35,893 ÷ 2.5 = 14,357 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 13,000. Homes are counted once however many pets they keep.
Our estimate
1,100
Estimated dog and cat losses in Upper Arlington each year
How we calculated this
13,000 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 1,100 a year. The real figure is unlikely to be lower.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
We built the this numbers from American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry and Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science, and both are worth a look if you want the detail.
What local customs suggest for your pet's stone
About 59.1%[5] of people in Ohio are cremated, a share that has been rising for years. Many families here grew up visiting headstones in a churchyard or town cemetery, and a stone for a pet can feel like a natural extension of that habit. Others prefer something less formal, such as an engraved river rock in a flower bed.
Source for the Ohio number: NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024). Nobody publishes a pet cremation rate for Upper Arlington, so the human figure is the best local signal available.
Which stones survive the weather in Upper Arlington
Upper Arlington winters are the real test for a memorial stone. Average lows drop below freezing in January, February, March and December, and every freeze-thaw cycle lets water into porous stone, freeze, expand and pry off flakes, often from the edges of engraved letters first. Dense granite shrugs this off; slate, sandstone, concrete and cast resin can crack within a few winters.
Think about where the snow goes in Upper Arlington. From January, February, March and December, the piles from a shovel, snowblower or plow sit longest and melt last, leaving a stone in slush for weeks. Place the memorial away from the edges of drives and paths, and never chip ice off it with a metal shovel, which can nick polished edges.
How much to budget for a pet stone
In Upper Arlington, as anywhere in the US, the engraving can cost as much as the stone. Monument engravers who charge by the letter typically ask $8–$35/char[6], and a standard 40 to 60 character inscription can total $500 to $1,200 at those rates[6]. Small online pet stones usually include a few lines of text in the price, which is why they look so much cheaper.
Prices for Upper Arlington track the wider Ohio market, so use the Ohio price table as your baseline and the services page to see what is included.
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Memorial budget planner
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Home burial, rentals and pet cemeteries in Ohio
Rented homes, condos and strata properties need a different plan. You usually can't bury a pet in shared grounds, and anything fixed in place may have to be removed when you leave. A stone with a sealed ashes compartment, or a heavy engraved rock on a patio, gives you a memorial without breaking the lease. Here's the local picture for Ohio.
Not sure which office covers Upper Arlington? The Ohio local government directory is the official list.
For Ohio's rules on burying a pet at home or scattering ashes, see the Ohio guide. Local rules in Upper Arlington can be stricter than the state's, especially in homeowners' associations and rentals.
A simple plan for your pet's memorial stone
- Mark the spot simply for now. A flat paver, a potted plant or a ring of pebbles holds the place while the ground settles and you think about wording.
- Decide where the stone will live long term: in a garden bed, at a pet cemetery, inside a large planter, or somewhere portable if a move is likely.
- Choose the material for your climate. Granite for hard winters and strong sun; slate or river rock where it's mild and dry.
- Write the wording and count the letters. On most small stones there's room for a name, the years and a single brief line; the memorial stone planner will tell you whether yours fits.
- Ask two or three makers for written quotes and make sure each total covers the engraving, a photo if you want one, shipping and installation.
- Approve a proof before anything is cut. Have a second person at home read every letter of it.
- Set the stone on compacted gravel so that water moves away and the marker sits straight; a plant alongside is a nice touch.
Remembering your pet beside the stone
Many Upper Arlington houses have mantels, built-in bookshelves and formal living rooms, natural places for a handsome walnut or bronze urn with a framed portrait beside it. Some families here commission an oil painting or a small sculpture of their pet instead. For custom work that incorporates ashes, confirm with the artist how much is needed so the remainder stays together.
or look at how readers voted in our polls, the planning tools turn your pet's details into figures, read our guides and latest articles, The services page is the place to compare what is included. More local pages: Columbus, Toledo, Dayton and Cincinnati, the Ohio overview and every city in the United States.
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Free tools to help you plan
Memorial budget planner
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Questions people ask
When is the hardest time of year to arrange a burial in Upper Arlington?
January, February, March and December: average lows are below freezing then, and frozen ground makes a home grave slow or impossible until it thaws. The other pressure point is July, when highs around 86°F mean a body needs cooling and collecting quickly.
Can a provider from a neighbouring town collect from Upper Arlington?
Usually yes. Hilliard is about 5 miles away, Columbus is about 6 miles away and Dublin is about 7 miles away, all inside a normal collection radius. Get the mileage written into the quote so there is no surprise on the day.
Will I have to travel to Columbus to arrange things?
Not usually. Providers based in Columbus (roughly 6 miles from Upper Arlington) collect from here as a matter of routine, and the paperwork is done by email or phone. If you want to be present for a witnessed cremation, that is when the drive matters.
How do Ohio attitudes to cremation compare?
NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) puts the Ohio human cremation rate at about 59.1%[5]. We show it on the Upper Arlington page because pet aftercare choices tend to track it: where cremation is normal for people, communal and private pet cremation are both easy to find.
What is the best stone for a pet grave in a cold climate?
Dense granite. It absorbs very little water, so it doesn't crack or flake when water freezes inside it. Slate can split along its layers, while sandstone, concrete and cast resin crack or crumble after a few hard winters. Choose deep sandblasted lettering and set the stone on compacted gravel so frost doesn't tilt it.
What happens to my pet's memorial stone if I move out of Upper Arlington?
If it sits on a gravel bed, lift it and take it with you; that's why many families avoid concrete. If ashes are inside the stone, they travel too. If your pet is buried beneath it, many owners take the stone and plant something in its place, and some tell the new owners what the spot means.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] The NFDA projected Ohio's cremation rate at 59.1% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [6] Headstone engravers charge $8–$35 per character; a standard 40–60 character inscription totals $500–$1,200. Memorials.com – Headstone Engraving Cost, 2026.
- [7] Across five posted US pet-cemetery price lists, the median whole-body burial for a small pet, including plot and opening/closing, was about $350. Our estimate: median of [Rainier $150 plot incl. first burial, Cedar Bend $290, Forest $350, Great River $750, Precious Memories $1,500]. How we calculate.
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