An outdoor memorial for your pet, made for Apex
By our count, roughly 2,450 Apex families lose a dog or cat every year. A memorial stone is one of the few decisions with no deadline, so here's what to know before you order.
- Engraving and proof steps explained
- Delivery weight and setting, planned ahead
- Quotes by email from makers who serve Apex
Apex, North Carolina
Stone makers, yards and delivery in Apex
HOA rules in Apex subdivisions sometimes limit what can go in a front yard, but they rarely touch the back garden or the inside of your home. A flat engraved stone in a flower bed, a memorial bench on a patio, or a framed paw print in the hallway are all options that usually avoid covenant trouble. Ask your HOA if you are unsure.
Many Apex households have moved here in the last decade or two and may move again, so portable memorials make sense. A good-sized urn for the bookshelf, a small keepsake for a relative, or jewelry holding a little ash can all travel. A garden stone or tree is lovely if you plan to stay, but think about whether you would want to leave it behind.
Some families around Apex use a stone from their own land. A smooth fieldstone or a rock from the creek bed where your dog swam can be engraved by many monument shops, as long as the face is dense enough to hold lettering. It costs less than a new stone and it already belongs to the place.
With roughly 80,419 residents, Apex is the 14th-largest of the 64 North Carolina communities we cover. Some of the providers who serve Apex are based about 14 miles away in Raleigh, the nearest larger centre, so collection times reflect that drive.
Nearby, we also have local pages for Cary (5 miles, a larger centre), Holly Springs (5 miles) and Morrisville (8 miles), which can help if your vet or the provider you prefer is based there.
Our estimate
29,500
How many dog- or cat-owning households Apex has (estimate)
How we calculated this
80,419 ÷ 2.5 = 32,168 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 29,500. Homes are counted once however many pets they keep.
Our estimate
2,450
dog and cat deaths per year in Apex, our estimate
How we calculated this
29,500 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 2,450 a year. Treat it as a minimum.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
Where these figures come from: American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry and Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science.
Grave or ashes? The local habit in North Carolina
Even with cremation at roughly 57.3%[5] of human deaths in North Carolina, local churchyards and cemeteries are full of short, formal inscriptions. Some families like that tone for a pet: a full name and two dates. Others want the nickname, the squeaky toy and a joke only the family gets. Both are right, and the stone is small enough to say only one thing well.
We take the North Carolina rate from NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024). It is a human statistic; there is no equivalent pet figure for Apex, and we would rather show a real number than invent one.
Apex weather and your pet's stone
Apex summers are hard on outdoor memorials: July averages highs around 91°F. Strong sun bleaches cast resin, fades painted lettering and dries out the sealant around ashes compartments. Granite and natural stone with carved letters are the safe choice. Painted fill in the letters will need touching up every few years; carved depth won't.
Photo stones need a little thought in a sunny place like Apex. Laser-etched portraits on black granite read best in soft light and can disappear in full midday glare, which is at its fiercest around July. Angle the stone slightly away from the afternoon sun or put it where a shrub throws some shade, and choose a crisp, high-contrast photo.
What drives the price of a pet memorial stone
Pet memorial stones cover a wide price range in the US, and the material matters more than the size. Engraved garden stones start at ~$39[6] across three US sellers, while flat granite markers start from $157.95[7] and upright granite headstones run $258–$628[8]. The table shows published prices you can use to judge any quote from a maker serving Apex.
Prices for Apex track the wider North Carolina market, so use the North Carolina price table as your baseline and the services page to see what is included.
Free tool
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Home burial, rentals and pet cemeteries in North Carolina
Public land is where most families run into limits. Parks, beaches and trails almost never allow a personal stone, and scattering ashes there may need permission or be restricted. The usual answer is to scatter or remember your pet at a public spot, then set the stone somewhere private. What we know for North Carolina is below.
Not sure which office covers Apex? The North Carolina local government directory is the official list.
The North Carolina page sets out who oversees pet cremation and what the state says about burial and scattering. Apex's own bylaws can sit on top of that, so ask before you dig.
A simple plan for your pet's memorial stone
- Mark the spot simply for now. While the soil is still sinking and the words aren't settled, something temporary, like a paver, a pot or a circle of pebbles, is enough to show where your pet rests.
- Decide where the stone will live long term: your garden, a pet cemetery, a planter or somewhere that can move with you.
- Choose the material for your climate. Where winters bite and summers scorch, granite holds up; in gentler, drier places slate or a river rock does fine.
- Write the wording and count the letters. Name, years and one short line fit most small stones. Our memorial stone planner checks the fit.
- Ask two or three makers for written quotes and make sure each total covers the engraving, a photo if you want one, shipping and installation.
- Approve a proof before anything is cut. Check spelling with someone else in the house.
- Set the stone on compacted gravel so that water moves away and the marker sits straight; a plant alongside is a nice touch.
Making the stone a place to visit
Jordan Lake lies a short drive west of Apex, and the American Tobacco Trail runs through the area, so outdoor places with personal meaning are close. If you scatter ashes somewhere public, choose a quiet moment, keep it discreet, and check the managing agency's guidance. Keeping a small portion back for a keepsake at home gives you something to hold on later anniversaries.
or see how other readers answered in our polls, the planning tools turn your pet's details into figures, For a plain comparison of the choices, open services, go deeper with the guides or catch up on recent articles. More local pages: Greensboro, Raleigh, Durham and Fayetteville, the North Carolina overview and every city in the United States.
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Free tools to help you plan
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Memorial stone planner
Plan size, material and engraving length so your wording fits the stone.
Memorial tree finder
Pick a tree for a planting urn that suits your climate, space and pet.
Questions people ask
Why does the Apex page quote a human cremation rate?
Because it is the best local signal we have. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) reports about 57.3%[5] of North Carolina residents are cremated. There is no official pet equivalent, and inventing one would be worse than quoting a real, clearly labelled number.
Will I have to travel to Raleigh to arrange things?
Not usually. Providers based in Raleigh (roughly 14 miles from Apex) collect from here as a matter of routine, and the paperwork is done by email or phone. If you want to be present for a witnessed cremation, that is when the drive matters.
Can a provider from a neighbouring town collect from Apex?
Usually yes. Cary is about 5 miles away, Holly Springs is about 5 miles away and Morrisville is about 8 miles away, all inside a normal collection radius. Get the mileage written into the quote so there is no surprise on the day.
How many pet owners live in Apex?
By our estimate, about 29,500 households in Apex have at least one dog or cat, and around 2,450 are lost each year. We calculate this from the city's population of about 80,419, the average household size and national ownership and lifespan figures, so treat it as a floor rather than an exact count.
Can I have my pet's photo etched onto a stone?
Yes. Makers use a laser on polished black granite to create a gray-scale portrait. Results depend on the picture: send the original file, taken in daylight, with your pet looking toward the camera. Dark pets on dark backgrounds and pale pets on pale ones lose their outline, so ask for background removal and approve a proof.
How much does a pet memorial stone cost in Apex?
Published US prices give a good guide. Engraved garden stones start at ~$39[6], natural engraved river stones run $38–$115[10], flat granite markers start from $157.95[7] and upright granite headstones cost $258–$628[8] (per one large retailer). Delivery, a photo and cemetery setting fees are extra, so ask Apex makers for a written total.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] The NFDA projected North Carolina's cremation rate at 57.3% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [6] Engraved pet garden stones start at about $39 at the median of three US sellers. Our estimate: median of starting prices [$38 Adirondack, $38.95 Memorials.com, $89.99 Comfort Co.]. How we calculate.
- [7] Flat granite pet grave markers at Memorials.com start at $157.95. Memorials.com – Pet Memorial Stones, 2026.
- [8] Upright granite pet headstones at Memorials.com run $257.95–$627.95. Memorials.com – Pet Memorial Stones, 2026.
- [9] Photo-etched or flat granite pet markers start at about $158–$160 at two US sellers. Our estimate: Memorials.com flat granite from $157.95; Comfort Co. photo granite from $159.99. How we calculate.
- [10] Adirondack Stone Works sells engraved natural-stone pet memorials from $38 (6–7 inch mini) to $115 (13–14 inch large), with 1–4 lines of text included. Adirondack Stone Works Pet Memorials, 2026.
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