An outdoor memorial for your pet, made for Paramus
By our estimate, about 9,850 households in Paramus have a dog or cat, and roughly 820 of those pets are lost each year. Many end up remembered with a stone in a garden bed; here's how to choose one that lasts.
- Stones matched to winters and summers in Paramus
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Paramus, New Jersey
Stone makers, yards and delivery in Paramus
Bergen County winters bring snow and salt, and summers are hot and humid; outdoor memorials need to cope with both. Granite and bronze hold up; resin fades within a few summers. Choose a spot away from the driveway where snow gets piled, level the ground with crushed gravel first, and the marker should stay legible for many years. A yearly scrub with water and a soft brush keeps it clean.
Paramus has shops for nearly everything, including frames, shadow boxes and custom engraving, which makes putting together a personal memorial easy. A photo, a collar tag and a paw print arranged in a shadow box is a simple choice that means a great deal. Prints must be made before cremation, so ask for one when you arrange collection. Bring the collar along when you pick out the frame, to check the depth.
Delivery to a rural address can add cost and time. Freight carriers sometimes charge extra for residential or remote addresses and may deliver to the end of a long driveway only. When you order for Paramus, ask about the delivery method up front, or arrange to collect the stone from a depot or maker in a larger center such as Yonkers.
With roughly 26,723 residents, Paramus is the 35th-largest of the 58 New Jersey communities we cover. Some of the providers who serve Paramus are based about 11 miles away in Yonkers, the nearest larger centre, so collection times reflect that drive.
Families in Paramus often end up using a provider from Fair Lawn (3 miles), Ridgewood (3 miles) and Elmwood Park (4 miles). That is normal: crematories serve a radius, not a single town, and the drive is priced into collection.
Our estimate
9,850
How many dog- or cat-owning households Paramus has (estimate)
How we calculated this
26,723 ÷ 2.5 = 10,689 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 9,850. Homes are counted once however many pets they keep.
Our estimate
820
Estimated dog and cat losses in Paramus each year
How we calculated this
9,850 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 820 a year. Treat it as a minimum.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
None of the figures on this this page are ours alone: they rest on Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science and American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry.
How local customs shape pet memorials
Cremation covers roughly 56.5%[5] of human deaths in New Jersey, and burial much of the rest, so it's common for two people in the same household to want different things. Cremation followed by burying the ashes under a stone often settles it: there's a grave to visit for one person and ashes that can travel for the other.
Source for the New Jersey number: NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024). Nobody publishes a pet cremation rate for Paramus, so the human figure is the best local signal available.
Which stones survive the weather in Paramus
Something is in flower for most of the year in a mild climate like Paramus's, so you can plant for the date that matters. Choose a shrub or bulb that blooms around your pet's birthday or the anniversary of their death, and the stone gets its own reminder each year. Our memorial tree finder can help you pick.
Even in a mild place like Paramus, where lows in January average around 28°F, drainage matters. Water sitting under a stone encourages algae and lets it sink at one corner. Set it on a thin layer of gravel, keep mulch and soil off its face, and it will look much the same in ten years as on the day you placed it.
Pet memorial stone prices for families in Paramus
Pet cemeteries price very differently from garden stones. By our estimate, the median starting burial price across 15 US pet cemeteries is ~$600[6], and a small pet's whole-body burial across five posted price lists comes to ~$350[7], often before any marker. One natural burial ground charges $250 for a boulder headstone, with engraving from $670[8]. A stone for a Paramus garden avoids those extras.
For a line-by-line price table, see the New Jersey overview; for what's included in each option, see our services.
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Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
What New Jersey allows for pet graves and markers
Some human cemeteries now have a pet section or accept a pet's ashes in a family plot, while many still refuse animals entirely. If you'd like your pet near relatives, ask the cemetery office for its written policy on pets, ashes and marker sizes before buying anything. Below is what we know about pet burial and scattering in New Jersey.
To find your county or city office in New Jersey, start with the official New Jersey local government directory.
For New Jersey's rules on burying a pet at home or scattering ashes, see the New Jersey guide. Local rules in Paramus can be stricter than the state's, especially in homeowners' associations and rentals.
A step-by-step plan for your situation
- Decide how much of the ashes belongs with the stone: all of them sealed inside, a small portion buried beneath, or none, with the stone simply marking a place your pet loved.
- If the stone will hold ashes, ask the maker for the cavity's volume and compare it with the container the crematory gave you. Our urn size calculator estimates the space you need.
- Keep the ashes in a sealed waterproof pouch rather than pouring them straight into the stone; unbagged, they absorb damp and set into lumps.
- Place the stone as soon as it arrives if you like. With no grave to settle, many families time it for a birthday or the first warm weekend.
- Pick a spot that stays yours, such as a patio corner or a large planter, if there's a chance you'll relocate.
- Write down what's inside the stone and keep the note with your household papers, so nobody later mistakes it for a garden ornament.
Around the stone: plants, benches and small rituals
Paramus homes typically have backyards, and a small garden memorial is a popular choice: a granite marker under a flowering tree, a planter of perennials, a stepping stone bearing a name. A carved box on a bookshelf or a photo with a clay print suits those who prefer something indoors. There's no deadline; ashes can be kept safely in their box while the family talks it over.
or see what other families chose in the poll results, See what each option includes on our services page, browse in-depth guides or recent articles, use the free tools before you ring anyone. If you live between Paramus and Jersey City, Newark, Paterson and Clifton, either page applies. Every other community in New Jersey, and all of the United States, is listed too.
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Free tools to help you plan
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Memorial stone planner
Plan size, material and engraving length so your wording fits the stone.
Memorial tree finder
Pick a tree for a planting urn that suits your climate, space and pet.
Questions people ask
How does Paramus's weather affect pet aftercare?
July is the hottest month in Paramus, with average highs around 85°F, so prompt collection matters most then. Average lows drop below freezing in January and February, which can make digging a grave hard until spring.
Which nearby towns can I compare with Paramus?
The closest communities we cover are Fair Lawn (about 3 miles), Ridgewood (about 3 miles) and Elmwood Park (about 4 miles). Providers based in those places often serve Paramus too. Ask each one for a written total that includes collection, so the distance is priced in.
Will I have to travel to Yonkers to arrange things?
Not usually. Providers based in Yonkers (roughly 11 miles from Paramus) collect from here as a matter of routine, and the paperwork is done by email or phone. If you want to be present for a witnessed cremation, that is when the drive matters.
Is cremation common in New Jersey?
For people, yes: about 56.5%[5] of New Jersey deaths end in cremation, according to NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024). Nobody publishes the same figure for pets, but in our experience pet choices in Paramus follow the human pattern closely, so cremation is the default most families here start from.
What does a pet cemetery plot cost compared with a garden stone?
A lot more. In a sample of 15 US pet cemeteries, a typical burial cost $1,500–$2,000[10], and ongoing care can add more; one New York cemetery charges $105/yr or $3,500[11] for upkeep. A garden stone at home costs only the stone and delivery, starting at ~$39[9] for an engraved garden stone.
What does engraving cost on a pet headstone?
Small online pet stones usually include a few lines of text in the price. Monument engravers who cut full-size headstones often charge by the letter, typically $8–$35/char[12], or a flat $50–$150/line[13]. A laser-etched portrait costs about $500–$800[14] (per one large retailer). Short wording on a smaller stone is the easiest way to keep the cost down.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] The NFDA projected New Jersey's cremation rate at 56.5% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [6] Across 15 US pet cemeteries' posted starting burial prices, the median entry price was about $600. Our estimate: median of starting prices [400,185,300,550,575,99,660.44,730,740,850,850,800,850,600,600]. How we calculate.
- [7] Across five posted US pet-cemetery price lists, the median whole-body burial for a small pet, including plot and opening/closing, was about $350. Our estimate: median of [Rainier $150 plot incl. first burial, Cedar Bend $290, Forest $350, Great River $750, Precious Memories $1,500]. How we calculate.
- [8] At Great River Natural Burial, a natural boulder headstone costs $250, engraving starts at $670, and pet caskets cost $170–$250. Great River Natural Burial – Pet Cemetery Pricing, 2026.
- [9] Engraved pet garden stones start at about $39 at the median of three US sellers. Our estimate: median of starting prices [$38 Adirondack, $38.95 Memorials.com, $89.99 Comfort Co.]. How we calculate.
- [10] Furever Memorials' review of 15 US pet cemeteries puts the typical pet burial at $1,500–$2,000. Furever Memorials – Pet Burial Cost (15 cemeteries), 2025.
- [11] Hartsdale Pet Cemetery in New York charges $105 a year for plot maintenance, or $3,500 one time for perpetual care. VOA News – America's oldest pet cemetery, 2024.
- [12] Headstone engravers charge $8–$35 per character; a standard 40–60 character inscription totals $500–$1,200. Memorials.com – Headstone Engraving Cost, 2026.
- [13] Some engravers charge a flat $50–$150 per line of text, depending on stone and provider. Memorials.com – Headstone Engraving Cost, 2026.
- [14] A laser-etched portrait on a headstone costs about $500–$800, and a porcelain photo $200–$600. Memorials.com – Headstone Engraving Cost, 2026.
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