An outdoor memorial for your pet, made for Oakdale
Around 940 dogs and cats die in Oakdale each year, by our estimate. If yours was one of them, this guide covers which stones suit local weather, what they cost and where they can go.
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Oakdale, Minnesota
What getting a pet stone made in Oakdale is like
Given the city's name, an oak planted over a biodegradable urn is a fitting choice for some families, though a swamp white oak or bur oak needs room to spread. Others prefer something small to hold: a fur clipping, a nose print, or a few grains of ash sealed in a glass charm. Keepsakes like prints and fur must be requested before cremation, so raise them early.
Oakdale mixes townhouse developments with 1970s-and-later single-family subdivisions, so memorial space varies a lot from one street to the next. In a townhome, a mantel urn, a shadow box holding a tag and a favorite toy, or a slim pendant fits easily. With a backyard, you might set an engraved stone beneath a maple or plant a flowering shrub where your companion used to lie in the grass.
Rural water is worth thinking about. If your home draws from a private well, keep any grave well away from it and downhill if possible; your state or regional rules set the minimum distance. The stone itself poses no risk to water, but the site you choose for it usually marks where your pet is buried.
With roughly 30,588 residents, Oakdale is the 34th-largest of the 67 Minnesota communities we cover. Some of the providers who serve Oakdale are based about 7 miles away in Saint Paul, the nearest larger centre, so collection times reflect that drive.
Oakdale sits within easy reach of Maplewood (4 miles), White Bear Lake (6 miles) and Woodbury (6 miles, a larger centre). A provider based in any of them will usually collect from Oakdale; ask what the mileage adds to the bill.
Our estimate
11,500
How many dog- or cat-owning households Oakdale has (estimate)
How we calculated this
30,588 ÷ 2.5 = 12,235 households; × 53% (dog) + 39% (cat) = 11,500. A household with several pets counts once.
Our estimate
940
Oakdale families who lose a dog or cat each year (estimate)
How we calculated this
11,500 dog/cat-owning homes ÷ average lifespan (dog: 12.69 yrs + cat: 11.18 yrs) ≈ 940 a year. Treat it as a minimum.
53%[1]
53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households.
12.69 years[2]
US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years.
39%[3]
39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households.
11.18 years[4]
US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years.
The numbers above come from American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry and Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science, if you'd like to read the original sources.

Local traditions and what they mean for a pet stone
Cremation now accounts for about 68.5%[5] of deaths in Minnesota, but burial traditions are still strong. If you grew up with family headstones, you may want the same kind of permanence for your pet: dense granite, deep lettering and a proper base. If your family is more used to ashes and urns, a lighter, movable stone may feel more natural.
The Minnesota percentage above is from NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) and refers to human funerals. Treat it as context for Oakdale, not as a count of pets.
Oakdale weather and your pet's stone
Snow and salt are both hard on stone in Oakdale. A flush marker disappears under snow from January, February, March, November and December, so add a small stake or a tall plant nearby if you want to find it easily. Keep de-icing salt away from the memorial: salt draws water into stone and speeds up flaking, especially on limestone, marble and concrete.
Order in winter and set in spring is a good rhythm for Oakdale. Mortar and construction adhesive don't cure properly in the cold, and January lows around 6°F are far below what they need. If your stone has a separate base or a glued plaque, ask the maker to assemble it in the workshop rather than on a cold day in your yard.

What a pet memorial stone costs in Oakdale
Pet memorial stones cover a wide price range in the US, and the material matters more than the size. Engraved garden stones start at ~$39[6] across three US sellers, while flat granite markers start from $157.95[7] and upright granite headstones run $258–$628[8]. The table shows published prices you can use to judge any quote from a maker serving Oakdale.
The full price table by product is on our Minnesota page, and the services page explains what each option includes.

Free tool
Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.
Rules to check before placing a stone in Minnesota
Before you dig anywhere in Minnesota, find out where underground cables and pipes run; in the US, calling 811 gets them marked for free. Then check any homeowners' association covenants, since some limit permanent features or anything visible from the street. A small flush stone in a backyard bed rarely breaks any rule.
Not sure which office covers Oakdale? The Minnesota local government directory is the official list.
The Minnesota page sets out who oversees pet cremation and what the state says about burial and scattering. Oakdale's own bylaws can sit on top of that, so ask before you dig.
From first idea to a stone in the ground
- Photograph the spot now. A picture of the grave or garden bed helps any maker suggest a size that suits it.
- Set a rough budget. Include the stone, lettering, delivery and any cemetery setting fee; our memorial budget planner adds it up.
- Choose the material. Match it to your winters and summers rather than the catalog photo.
- Draft two or three wording options and pick the one that still feels right after a few days.
- Send the details for quotes. Size, material, wording, photo and delivery address are all a maker needs.
- Approve the proof and arrange delivery, then set the stone on drained gravel so it stays level for years.
Around the stone: plants, benches and small rituals
Washington County winters heave soil hard, so any outdoor marker in Oakdale needs a firm footing. Granite or bronze on four inches of packed gravel holds its position far better than resin or cast concrete dropped straight into sod. Keep it out of snowblower range, and look it over each April once the ground softens, resetting it if the frost has nudged it off level.
or see how other readers answered in our polls, look through our guides and the blog, run the numbers with the free planning tools, Every option Oakdale families choose between is on the services page. If you live between Oakdale and Minneapolis, Rochester, Duluth and Bloomington, either page applies. Every other community in Minnesota, and all of the United States, is listed too.
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Free tools to help you plan

Memorial budget planner
Add up cremation, urn, keepsakes and a farewell so the total holds no surprises.

Memorial stone planner
Plan size, material and engraving length so your wording fits the stone.

Memorial tree finder
Pick a tree for a planting urn that suits your climate, space and pet.
Questions people ask
How do Minnesota attitudes to cremation compare?
NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) puts the Minnesota human cremation rate at about 68.5%[5]. We show it on the Oakdale page because pet aftercare choices tend to track it: where cremation is normal for people, communal and private pet cremation are both easy to find.
Roughly how many pets die in Oakdale each year?
Our estimate is around 940. It comes from Oakdale's population (about 30,588), the average household size, the share of homes with a dog or cat (about 11,500 households here) and the average lifespan. It is arithmetic, not a count, so read it as a rough floor.
Does the Oakdale climate change what I should do first?
Only the timing. In July, with highs near 81°F, cool the body and book collection the same day. In January, February, March, November and December, when lows sit below freezing, a home burial may have to wait for a thaw, so cremation with ashes returned keeps your options open.
Can a provider from a neighbouring town collect from Oakdale?
Usually yes. Maplewood is about 4 miles away, White Bear Lake is about 6 miles away and Woodbury is about 6 miles away, all inside a normal collection radius. Get the mileage written into the quote so there is no surprise on the day.
Do many families in Oakdale choose a memorial stone?
We don't track local sales, but the numbers suggest plenty do. By our estimate, around 940 dogs and cats die in Oakdale each year, from about 11,500 dog- or cat-owning households, and a large share of US owners say they'd prefer home burial (40.4% cremation; 34.9% home burial; 1.9% aquamation[10] in one survey). Many of those graves end up marked with a stone.
What does a pet cemetery plot cost compared with a garden stone?
A lot more. In a sample of 15 US pet cemeteries, a typical burial cost $1,500–$2,000[11], and ongoing care can add more; one New York cemetery charges $105/yr or $3,500[12] for upkeep. A garden stone at home costs only the stone and delivery, starting at ~$39[6] for an engraved garden stone.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] 53% of US households own a dog, which is about 71 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [2] US dogs have an average life expectancy at birth of 12.69 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [3] 39% of US households own a cat, which is about 53 million households. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 State of the Industry, 2025.
- [4] US cats seen at Banfield hospitals have an average life expectancy at birth of 11.18 years. Montoya et al. 2023, Frontiers in Veterinary Science - Banfield Pet Hospital life expectancy tables (13.3 million dogs, 2.4 million cats, 2013-2019), 2023.
- [5] The NFDA projected Minnesota's cremation rate at 68.5% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [6] Engraved pet garden stones start at about $39 at the median of three US sellers. Our estimate: median of starting prices [$38 Adirondack, $38.95 Memorials.com, $89.99 Comfort Co.]. How we calculate.
- [7] Flat granite pet grave markers at Memorials.com start at $157.95. Memorials.com – Pet Memorial Stones, 2026.
- [8] Upright granite pet headstones at Memorials.com run $257.95–$627.95. Memorials.com – Pet Memorial Stones, 2026.
- [9] Opening and closing the grave makes up 33–47% of a whole-body pet burial at a natural burial ground. Our estimate: $250/$750 (small) to $450/$950 (large). How we calculate.
- [10] Asked their preferred future after-death care, 40.4% of US owners chose traditional flame cremation and 34.9% home burial; 10.7% chose cemetery burial and 1.9% alkaline hydrolysis (aquamation). Cooney, Kogan, Brooks, Ellis - Pet Owners' Expectations for Pet End-of-Life Support and After-Death Body Care, Topics in Companion Animal Medicine (2020), 2020.
- [11] Furever Memorials' review of 15 US pet cemeteries puts the typical pet burial at $1,500–$2,000. Furever Memorials – Pet Burial Cost (15 cemeteries), 2025.
- [12] Hartsdale Pet Cemetery in New York charges $105 a year for plot maintenance, or $3,500 one time for perpetual care. VOA News – America's oldest pet cemetery, 2024.
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